Dear J: Toxic Parent
Dear J, My mother is Jekyll and Hyde. She’s been like this as long as I can remember. When she’s up she’s funny and generous. When she’s down she’s mean and sarcastic. There’s always a period of silence where I… Continue Reading
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Barking Dogs Drive Neighbors Crazy
Dear J: We live in a rural area where a barking dog can be heard for miles. One neighbor has a dog that barks nonstop and it’s driving all of us crazy. What to do? It’s helpful to consider that… Continue Reading
How to Stop Conversational Hogs
Dear J: I’ve always wanted to know: What’s the kindest, yet most-effective way to deal with people who hog conversational balls, hold court, lecture, repeat stories (mainly about themselves and/or people unknown to everyone else)? They’ll recite entire passages from… Continue Reading
Conversational Party Etiquette
Dear J: Say you’re at a party, and you’re deep in a conversation with someone. Suddenly another person walks up and stands there, obviously wanting to start a new conversation. You like both people. What’s the most polite, considerate way… Continue Reading
Have Yourself a Thrifty Little Christmas
Dear J: I usually love the holidays, but not this year. I’m the main breadwinner, and I lost my job recently. I know many others who’ve also lost their jobs, or homes, and/or are trying to get by on less… Continue Reading
Dear J: Is Even-Steven Best for Siblings?
Dear J, My youngest son, Doug, who is just turning 16, is hounding me about getting his license and buying a car because his older brother got one at this age and we helped him. The problem is that his… Continue Reading
Dear J: Cure for Election Blues?
Dear J, I’m so unhappy with how the election turned out. I’m so sad, mad and frustrated that it’s beginning to affect my work and family life! I’m obsessing! Help me! Fran B. Dear Fran, The long, torturous election season… Continue Reading
Farewell to One – Hello to Others
Dear Ones, Today we bring you some good news and some – I’ll just say it – a loss. First, let’s deal with the loss. It’s with mixed emotions that we report that Thom Gabrukiewicz’s outdoors columns (with us since August) will soon disappear… Continue Reading
