I changed my last name to my mother's maiden name; because I always felt like I was most like her family and because I felt so close to grandpa (her dad). What's in a name? Belonging, memories, allegiance, a sense of self, embracing our truth, alignment with our chosen place in the world and the […]
Great article Doni! I had a Babcia and a Dziadziu. I HAD a first name that I didn't like and was never used so I ditched it when I got married but kept my middle name and family name (which I've always liked) with my husband's name when I got married. I always thought that […]
In reply to Doni Chamberlain. Two friends married, and last names were simple. Mary Smith married John Smith; so she didn't have to change any records. The only issue was when she was asked her maiden name. Smith, said she. No, I mean the name you were born with. You get the picture.